Forgiving someone does not necessarily mean forgetting what they have done. It's possible to forgive someone while still remembering the hurtful actions they have taken. In fact, it's common for people to struggle with letting go of painful memories, even after they have forgiven their partner. The key to forgiving someone even if you can't forget is to focus on letting go of negative emotions and moving forward. Forgiveness involves making a conscious choice to release feelings of anger, resentment, or bitterness towards your partner.