The author initially found themselves holding a grudge in the workplace due to a perceived lack of recognition and fairness. This grudge affected their work negatively until a colleague's advice prompted a shift in perspective. By focusing on what they could control and letting go of resentment, they found empowerment and renewed satisfaction in their work. This experience led to the realization that holding grudges in the workplace is toxic and limits personal growth and productivity. The author’s advice is to focus on personal growth, shift mindset from scarcity to abundance, and not let others’ actions dictate happiness, ultimately recognizing one's own worth.